I am in my 50s and have been married for over 25 years. I recently met one of my only son’s girlfriends and my life has never been the same again. Her body is simply wonderful; well-stacked boobs and glowing skin and she wears all the revealing clothes that are the rage these days. For months I fantasised about having sex with her.
Then she started making teasing remarks to me and flirting with me behind my son’s back. To cut a long story short, we are now lovers and I give her most of the financial support she needs.
My son is now talking about their getting engaged and the thought that she could be around permanently is killing me.
It is one thing to be bedding a casual girlfriend, but not a daughter-in-law! She said she loves my son and is quite keen on marrying him. What can I do to stop this marriage?
Yakubu, by e-mail.
You can do absolutely nothing if your son decides to marry his girlfriend.
You have already made a fool of yourself by not only lusting after her, but taking her to bed. You might be going through a mid-life crisis, but what a way to massage your ego!
Wedding bells haven’t started ringing yet.
If and when they eventually do, I would cut my losses if I were you and pray that my indiscretion never comes up.